你的舞会

人生就像一场舞会。

舞会开始前，有些人已经有了全盘计划，该怎么隆重其事，盛装出席；也有些人对舞会嗤之以鼻，不屑一顾，反正有些事早已尘埃落定。

当音乐开始播放后，

有些人才开始在舞池中徘徊斟酌自己的目标，也有人翘起二郎腿什么也不做。也许灯光太过绚丽，音乐太过怡情，在人与人的周旋中，我们都不经意地闭上了眼睛。从此，沉醉在自己世界里，身边的事、物与人仿佛与我无关。

就在眼睛闭上后，我们继续相信计划会如期进行。所以很多时候，我们都被所谓的计划束缚，太过执着于计划内应该发生的事。一杯洒在晚装上的红酒，一个意外闯进生命的选择，就足以让我们失措惊慌。

当灯光转暗音乐结束后，请你缓缓地张开眼睛。你也许会感到惊讶，身边的人早已面目全非；你也许也会感动，因为即使兜兜转转后，紧握着你的人仍旧是陪你步入会场的那个人。

晚装脏了，那就潇洒地换上衬衫，舞伴走了，那就暂时分饰两角。这个世界少了一件衣服一个人，还是一样地在自传公转。


没有计划也是一种幸福。

要懂得珍惜熟悉感，但请你也给自己多一点点的勇气，去接受闯进来的过客。


因为人生就像一场舞会，教会你最初舞步的人未必能陪你走到散场。

A winning loser

It's been a while.

Quest for Soul is the only place I find comfortable to excrete all my unhappiness, perhaps because it does not talk so I do not have to reply and explain more. I can even assume that it understands me so much that it gives no objection at all.

Are you an investor? Or someone invested by the others?

In life we can't avoid investing in a lot of things. Choosing an option over another is always an investment, given you have absolutely no idea what is the aftermath of your decision.

But what is ironic is that we still invest a lot even though there is no assurance of winning the game. And sometimes it is more like putting in a lot of money for something that you clearly know it would not grow, and nevertheless believing that there might be a miracle.

It's like falling in love with a heartbreaker and for him, you are willing to take that risk.

So. Don't be an investor, ever. Be someone valuable to be invested by the others. So you have nothing to lose, but their money - their heart, in the case of relationship.

Be heartless to be happy.

Welcome to the world of no heart and may you live happily ever after.

我是女孩

她是女孩。她有一颗温柔的心。

她很漂亮，是男生追捧的对象，她的天空总是晴朗的。

她娇滴滴，是男生怜惜的小兔，她总会有个等待的避风港。

她很清秀，是男生倾慕的公主，情人节的玫瑰花就她最多。

可是有些女生，

她们不哭不闹，因为她们不愿意随便掉眼泪。

她们不耍脾气，因为脾气再大也解决不了问题。

她们时常微笑，因为再难过也不要影响别人。

她们大声说话，因为大剌剌的感觉才是王道。

她们积极努力，因为靠自己比靠别人更实在。

她们不说心事，因为渴求别人明白很不容易。

她们独自一人，因为在无法释怀的过去里挣扎。

她们不谈恋爱，因为她们心里住了一个不可能的人。

她们不是无动于衷，不是遥不可及，她们就是这样，

她们也许化妆品很少、衣服的颜色很寡、也许不太会说话、也许是你眼里的iron lady。

但是，请你也疼疼她们，因为她们也是女孩，她们也有一颗温柔的心。

5 Reasons Man City will lose in the EPL title race

1. Mancini, the stubborn boss.

Mancini always has a stricter management on the players compared to Sir Alex Ferguson and Jose Mourinho whose stands are much more flexible, and sometimes he could get really unreasonable and rigid.

The stressing of blue team boss on the disciplines of the players has been goodly acknowledged in the locker rooms. However his indulgence for the striker Mario Balotelli has apparently caused the unhappiness of the old guards, also fighting with Gareth Barry and James Milner at the field side has shown how unwilling Mancini to compromise with the players. Hitler II!

2. The Dreadful Journey

After the surprising Swansea loss, the blue team has appeared to be a little bit exhausted. This has also been evidently proven by the fact that David Silva had been performing really poor since the beginning of the season. As for Yaya Toure, who after his long absence for Africa Cup of Nations, did not even get to rest well before he went back to the field. So tired man!

3. Continuous Injuries

Injuries are unavoidable on the fields, even the biggest competitor Manchester United have countered the same problem, in fact the main players of the Red Devils Vidic and Valencia will only come back the next season.

This problem did not bother Man City much at the early stage of the season, but it gets really overwhelming in the recent games. Vincent Kompany and Joleon Lescott [hamstring injury in the warm up, you gotta be kidding!] missed some of the key matches while Aguero [By pain-killing spray!] and Barry have also just joined the crocked list of the Blue team. Ouchhh!

4. The Strategies

Early of the season, plan A of the City has deemed to be invincible. Mancini's style of 4-2-3-1 secures a good defense against the opposition, at the same time good attack through the middle or on the wings! But the plan does not seem to be working well anymore as time goes by. 

It's not easy to find out that Silva and Nasri can only do passing across the middle, sideways pass has never been their thing! One good thing left is that Balotelli remains unpredictable on the field, but unfortunately even the teammates do not know what is on his mind. [Don't laugh!]

5. Manchester United, the Devil Rival.

You just have no reason not to win when you have accumulated 71 points after only 31 matches! Early victories of the city have made them stand out in the season. But on the other hand, the persistence of the Devils has overrun everything and refreshed the league table from time to time! As of blog time, the Red Devils have a 5-point lead to maintain the title, which is gonna be the 20th of them! 

Now LOOK at the analysis below, and SMILE :) 

都不像

有人说，
爱情就像橡皮筋，
两个人拉着就相安无事，谁不肯放手谁就准备受伤。

有人说，
爱情就像泡沫，
凝望的时候七彩斑斓煞是漂亮，可是轻轻触碰就破。

有人说，
爱情就像吹风筒，
开始靠近的时候很温暖，一旦久后头皮就隐隐作痛。

有人说，
爱情就像一本字典，
用得越久翻得越多懂得越多，你就越不需要它。

有人说，
爱情就像一双鞋子，
看中的往往都是不适合的，穿了脚疼，但扔了心疼。

其实，
爱情可以什么都像，
偏偏就是不像你想的那样。

那，爱情对你而言，是什么。

TO RESPECT

WARNING : The content below may cause uneasiness, anxiety or nightmares.

I was talking with this friend (hereinafter known as S) who had very bad experience in his previous relationship, about how 2 people of different religions in a relationship will usually end up going apart.

S, ever after his painful experience on this matter, has been feeling very uncomfortable with deeply devoted Christians around, especially those who always attempt to preach.

So I illustrated him with this instance.

" A mom had to be a prostitute in order to raise up her child. She is, no doubt the greatest mom in the eye of the child after all the sacrifices she had made. Nevertheless, in the eye of the public, she might be just not more than a bitch who has always been oppressively discriminated by the others"

So what do you think the mom is? (prostitute? great mom? hesitating?)

Look, there are people who take moral values as the measure of all things, while there are those who replace their priority depending the circumstances. So, in life you will always come across with different kind of people who have utterly different feelings or opinions on a similar matter. Unexceptionally, same goes for religious beliefs.

Christians might stress a lot of on the prohibition of premarital sex, Buddhists emphasize more on 'what goes around comes around' while the Muslims believe the whole universe was created Allah, and etc.

One could always have faith in what he/she believes in, what matters most is how you should be reminded of this -- never force your principles on anyone around you.

Because, there will be peace on earth only when there is peace among the world religions.

Today's Knowledge : http://spiritlessons.com/documents/Pictures_from_the_PIT/index.htm